WORTH-LESS
NO GOOD
LOSER
STUPID
Are you being called any of these insults? Maybe more or even worse? No need to worry, you are not alone. I'm an expert on this! If this has just started things are going to be so much easier for you to get out. If this has been going on for months, years, weeks even it will be slightly more difficult for you.
This just started for me:
Maybe a week, hour, minute, day, or second ago this is a more simple fix for you.
If you and your other half haven't been dating for long (anywhere from a day to 2 months) then get out! run away, leave, do whatever is absolutely possible and necessary for you to get away from this person. I know you most likely like this person...maybe even love..? But it DOES NOT matter! I've been through this and it lasted for four years! There is absolutely no need to ever to let something last that long that is hurting you. It is a ton much more easier if you just leave now early on in the relationship! If I had left sooner I wouldn't such a sensitive person now, and there would have been much less heartache and difficulty on both sides.
Let's say you guys have been dating a long while.. (anywhere from 3months to 1+years) So, its just started for you and you are in a long-term relationship here. Maybe it was through an argument or just random, I don't know. If this just happened and you and this person are pretty serious, chances are it won't again. Just notify that person and let them know it hurt you. Try not to say the words you or anything pointing them out. Simply say: "Being called a _____ made me really upset, and hurt my feelings." Or, "When all those nasty things were said about me the other night/today/yesterday/whenever it seriously wasn't cool because it hurt my feelings badly." *If this doesn't work and you are in for the long run with this person and they strike again soon, please email me and it will be a personal conversation between you and I.*
This Has Been Going On A While:
You love them. They aren't all bad, he is a really nice person too..sometimes anyway. Well, I'm staying for the good things in him and in us. He doesn't hit me or anything so this isn't really a problem....right? It's getting better. It's my fault he does this to me.
NO NO NO! All of that is wrong! You may love him though..that's the problem. I know how you feel, what you're thinking, and I also know how he works. When he calls you mean things he turns it around, right? Makes everything seem like you started it all. Well you were talking to that guy I seen YOU so you are the Lucy goose. (Most likely a more severer word choice) You are a ***** because all YOU do is nag me. YOU are stupid because YOU messed it up. every things always YOU and always YOUR fault. Every argument, fight, spat, and problem is never precious' fault..its all YOU. Or maybe he doesn't do that. Maybe when he calls you all of this he apologizes later saying its all HIS fault. Crying to you even, saying it will never happen again. Oh, but it does, right? He sure knows how to be sweet when you're mad right? I know! Listen to me. Ignore him. It won't be easy. It kills him when you ignore him because most likely he is downright obsessed with you, just don't know it..yet. Don't take him back either. Break up with him. Yes, do it! Rip your own heart out of your very own chest so he can't. Be in control! if someones going to break your heart, let it be you. From experience, he will never change. No more hope in this situation. It's hopeless. There is no hope to be found here for change. The only hope you need is that you can control yourself and get out and not ever look back. *if you need honest help in fleeing away please email and I will start you on a day to day processes and recovery.* Peronsal convo*
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