So we've all been called annoying, right? At some point in our lives someone as pulled out that dreadful A word to us and cut us deeply with it. Guys always say it. "
Girls are so annoying!" Even girls will admit we can be annoying. Lets face it, things get pretty serious when we admit we are in the wrong. ;) Anyway, lets try and fix this problem. I wanted to tackle this issue in the appropriatest way...by asking a guys opinion of course! My boyfriend of a year is here to help us! Tell us what's so annoying, so we STOP it! Here are the top 5 he pointed out and why.
5. "Double standards" Say whaaaa??? Okay, so what is a double standard? A double standard is when, you tell a guy, "Hey, I hate when you text other girls!" And then you go off and text other boys. See what I mean here? It's not okay for them to do something, but in your eyes, when you do it, nothing is at fault.
-why is this so annoying to guys??
"Cause if we can't do it, why can you?" Says my lovely boyfriend. Girls, we are no perfect humans. If you don't trust you boyfriend with his friends enough to not let him hang out with them, guess what? No GNO's For you either anytime soon, sister!
4. "Not Listening." What do you mean, I don't listen?!? I mean, you can't be one worded all the time. Here are some good words to stray away from in conversations with the opposite sex:
Yup
Haha
Yeah
Mhm
Yada, yada, yada.
- Why is this so annoying?
"When we talk to a girl, its frustrating when she doesn't contribute. We like to hear what you think about it and hear more then one word back." Says the boyfriend. I mean really girls! If a guy is taking time out of his day to talk to you, and he is a cutie patootieeee, talk back! Listen! "We are trusting the girl with what we are telling them. We could easily go talk to another guy who would actually listen and talk, but we felt better goin to that girl. And then feeling like she aint listening when we need her to kills the relationship, weather friendship or more, cause we probably wont go back to her. We'll find someone else to talk to about the important stuff. We feel like were talking to a wall." Says the boyfriend. Listen to this advice and then listen to guys!
3. " Lack of Confidence" (This, personally, is even a problem for me!) Here's an example: "It really really really gets under my skin when I see a absolutely great lookig girl walking around with slumped shoulders and the zero-confidence face. It makes me want to shake them and just say really?" Says Mr. Amber's boyfriend. Confidence is so hard to get and maintain, I know girls! At least fake it ;)
2.
"Over Reaction." Oh boy! We here this one a lot! "
You're over reacting, calm down! How are we over reacting? Why are we over reacting? Here's my boyfriends exact words on this, (this made me chuckle, a lot) "Her friends cat dies. Friends that is female flips her lid and says omg omg omg omg omg omg omg I cant believe this! She was only 9 years old!
That makes me wabt to stab myself with a rusty spork from nam." HAHA! Nuff said, girls take a chill pill, puhlease.
1. "Nag" urrgghh! Aren't we always accused of this one?!? So, I talked a tiny bit about nagging in my, "How to be the Right Girlfriend" post. Naggsation it's become quite the problem for us ladies. So what's a nag? When you're on a guys case over something either: silly, dumb, something they already know form common sense, or just anything.
-Why is it so annoying though? We are just trying to help our squishy wooshy. It makes them want to run! I don't care if you are pmsing or what! Don't do this, it causes problems.
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I hope you all enjoyed this very much so! Special, special, special thanks to my awesome boyfriend for helping me!
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